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So, @BrianTL ... where do you and I stand these days?
As far as I'm concerned, let's just forget it and move on. You seem to be of the same opinion.
Jumping ahead a bit to something that happened the other day because it pissed me off and it made Sierra cry.
When we first started talking on the phone after the hospital, I was thinking she was about 24, maybe 25. She thought I was 31 or maybe 32.
The more we talked, the clearer it became that she was younger than that and I was older.
During about week 2 of our talks, I was trying to get the information out of her without being obvious.
"Dude, if you want to know my age just ask already."
"Okay. How old are you?"
"Michael, never ask a girl her age."
"You just told me to!"
"LOL. How old do you think I am?"
"I would guess 20. Maybe 21."
"Good boy. I'm 20 but my birthday is coming up soon - hint."
"Fucking hell. Do you know how creepy that makes me?"
"Why? I'm guessing you're 39 or 40."
I was 40 at that point. And yeah, I was definitely uncomfortable with how people would view me talking dating each other with a girl 20 years younger. But she's made it clear that she doesn't care and that I'm not to bring the topic up anymore and how she could tell after our first phone conversation that I was older than she initially thought how she's had a crush on me since the hospital when I was watching her food and liquid intake because she has diabetes and she doesn't take it seriously enough.
I think the reason it works is because what we want and need out of a romantic relationship lines up perfectly even if it is a bit old fashion.
So I do get some judgmental looks from some people now and again when we go out - although they usually change their tune when they see how cute we are together. The looks usually aren't from men - they see me and they're thinking that lucky bastard. It's usually women in their 30s who think I'm taking advantage of her and they don't know what the fuck they're talking about. Sierra put the whole thing in motioni!
And yeah, she's got "daddy issues" which we've discussed at great length and I've got issues with needing to recover my lost youth after my best friend died in high school. We get it.
So we're at the gas station, and this girl who works there is a BITCH. Sorry to drop the b-word but Sierra calls her that all the time so I feel it appropriate.
We usually try to avoid her because she gives the most judgmental looks of all. But we end up in her line and her attitude made it quite clear that she thinks I'm some kind of predator and that Sierra is a slut letting some old man take advantage. As if it's any of her fucking business!
So Sierra was crying in the car immediately afterward and it got really bad - the shaking kind of weeping. She was upset the rest of the day and begging me not to care what that stupid mean girl was getting at.
I'm not the sort of guy to complain to a manager about rude service, and I didn't, but if that girl talks to my girlfriend like that again, she's going to have a world of problems. You do not fucking talk to her like that.
I just can't believe that other people judge two adults who are in a loving and caring and sharing and devoted relationship. Mind your own fucking business, you know? Be happy that two lost souls found each other.
So ...
Sierra was done pontificating about her goddamn boots. Yeah, they're sexy as fuck. And they go up to her thighs and you immediately want to ask her out the moment you see her. They ARE NOT boots you wear into a psych ward.
So my hair and beard was long at that point. Like ... long. And my glasses square.
So we stared at each other down the hallway.
It went on for a long time.
The nurses and security let it go on because it was calming her dowm.
So Sierra got me with another prank. And I decided to get her back.
This is a bit @momofthegoons posted a while back.
"Sierra, I need to tell you about my time in China."
"Is this a bit?"
"No. This shit actually happens.
See, when you go to a restaurant in China, and you order the appetizer, what happens is they bring you out a live monkey, and then they slaughter him right in front of you on the table. Then they cut open the cranium and give you some chopsticks and just let you pick at the raw brains until the main course arrives. They don't even charge you. It's a different culture than ours."
She actually believed me and looked it up again!
As if anyone would actually do that!
Americans really need to travel more.
So, a couple nights ago, Sierra invites the girls over.
They start doing vodka shots. And eating burritos. Extra beans.
One of the girls, Alisha, is an extrovert and is incapable of being embarrassed. So she starts the farting. She landed a fart bomb I heard from upstairs. And it went from there.
A room full of twentysomething drunk girls who have decided that farting is the joke of the night. Like they're a bunch of drunken frat boys.
It went from there. From fart to fart. Laugh to laugh.
What made me leave the room?
When Alisha dropped the kind of fart bomb meant for WWII, and then exclaimed, "Oh no! Situation, girls! I think I just buttered my biscuits!"
Fucking gross.
So I ask Sierra about it later.
"Is that seriously how you girls act when you're only among other girls?"
"Dude, you don't even know. When Alisha gets going, it's on."
"That's fucking gross."
So she decides to play a prank on me. And I fell for it.
She goes to the bathroom, and leaves the door a peek open. And then I hear this:
I hear it all the way from the bedroom. And I rush to the bathroom door.
"Sierra, are you okay? I can hear this. It sounds like you have food poisoning! I'm coming in."
"Yeah, dude. Lay off. Chill."
"Why should I chill when my girlfriend is shitting her guts out? It sounds like you're on a Code Brown emergency in there!"
"Dude, it's only mud flaps. Relax."
"I don't know what that means. I'm coming in, okay?"
"Dude, I'm making chocolate donuts. You don't want to smell this."
"That's fucking gross. And I don't care. A healthy person can't make those knd of sounds. "
So I walk in. And there she is. With the phone right up against the door. So I heard every sound.
Fucking hell.
I was legitmately concerned for her well being!
She got the scolding of a lifetime. Although admitted I was sweet for caring for her despite the poop.
So ... here's a little number for you.
Sierra has not been in a good place mentally the last few days. In the lowest end of her downward bipolar cycle. Won't take her meds. Lays in bed all day.
I can't stand to see her like this.
I ask her, "Do you want to watch a movie or something? Maybe something silly and stupid?"
"No. I want to watch something sad."
"Um .... okay. What about The Shape of Water?"
"Dude, isn't that like where some chick gets it on with like some fish or something? That's fucking weird."
"Um ... there's a lot more to it than that. But yes, that is the movie to which I'm referring."
"Fine. Whatever. I don't care."
So two minutes in, she pauses it, and demands I have plenty of cannabis ready - In "HER" GH and snacks and alcohol and no pee breaks. This film changed her. It was like me seeing Stanley Kubrick's 2001 - that shit changes you.
She was weeping by the film's end. She got all that shit out of her system and then fell asleep.
She woke up the next day and started asking me about del Toro. I made the mistake of telling her about Pan's Labyrinth.
Now, the protagonist is a little girl named Ophelia. She is a fucking badass. Brave, kind, loving, won't back down to anyone. IMO, she's maybe the greatest character who's ever been written. She's a fucking goddess. Living through a dark and violent fairy tale and trying to make sense of the world.
And now Sierra is in love with del Toro movies. Can't blame her.
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