That sounds like a lot of watering/feeding, I would water/feed each plant until you see a little starting to flow through the bottom of the pot then stop, the amount you are using is like a flush. I used to use a fish tank heater in my nutrient tank but now only use cold...Tasmanian winter cold with no problems. When I had a similar top feed system to your set up(except in clay balls and had the plants in gutters to catch runoff and send back to nutrient tank), I had a pump set up to water each plant for 15 minutes(shortest time interval with the timer I had) 6 times per 12 hours(bud cycle) and 9 times(grow cycle) this set up draws lots of air into the root system...yours may well be getting waterlogged with stagnant nutes if they don't drain quickly.Do you think that's been too much?
I would look into a filter for your well water or try to harvest some rainwater to help with your 'lock-out" problems so you can feed the plants what they really need...full strength pot growing food!
At least you did not stress them in the first 3 weeks as that can reduce your final yield by up to half!